Spells to attract love are some of the most popular spells for witches to cast. There is nothing wrong with casting spells to attract love, romance, friendship, beauty, etc. in general. However, when you start casting with specific people in mind it may interfere with their free will and that is disliked by many. When we start interfering with free will we risk our own karmic debt. After all, you wouldn’t want someone to force you to love them against your will, would you? All the spells and charms in this section are designed to help you attract love the right way and without imposing your will on other people. The spells on this page are focused on romance, friendship, beauty, confidence, self-esteem, lust, sex, passion, unconditional love, and helping improve the amount of love you put out in the world yourself.
Take the rose quartz and set it on your altar. Sprinkle the sea salt in a circle around it and then take the water and put some salt in it. Place the rose quartz in the salt water and put your power hand over the water with the stone in it and say three times:
Dry the stone off and carry it with you until you've attracted a lover!
On a Friday, write on a plain piece of white or green paper, the name of the person you desire and your own name. Around this draw a heart.
Next you will need to obtain an apple. A green apple is best. Cut the apple in half. Between the two halves place your piece of paper. Then hold the apple together with some string, cord or rope, and tie three knots in it. Then say
T're báct me çav,
T're baçt me piyáv,
Dáv tute m're baçt
Káná tu mánge sál
Take a bite of the apple and eat it.
At night go to your prospective lover's house and bury it in her/his garden. If the person does not have a garden, then bury it as near to her/his home as possible. If you can't bury it, hide among some bushes or trees. You will notice the effects of this spell the next time you come into contact with the person.
Broken Heart Balm
Melt 1/4 cup beeswax and 1/4 cup olive oil over low heat, add 6 drops rose and 2 drops ylang-ylang, and toss in 1/4 tsp. crushed chamomile flowers, Pour into container and allow to cool. Charge a rose quartz with healing love energy. Rub the oil on your skin at your heart center. Feel it gently soothing the pain. Take several slow, deep breaths, inhaling the pleasant scent, letting it calm your thoughts and emotions. Repeat each night and each morning until your sadness diminishes.
Braid three pieces of thread (1 ea. Red, white, and blue) together while you repeat these words:
"Thread of the red, the blue, and the white,
Weave your Magic Spell tonight"
Now take the three feathers and tie the stalks of the feathers onto your colorful braid. They should be tied at evenly spaced intervals. Then repeat these words:
"Thread of red, the blue, and the white
Weave your Magic Spell tonight
All that I deserve now bring
When I touch the feathers and string
Cast this Spell and make it true
One for the white, for red and blue"
Then tie the braid around your wrist to make a magic bracelet. Whether you'd like to strengthen or find a new friendship, touch one feather at a time and make a wish.
Light patchouli incense and three candles (pink for physical beauty, red for sexual attraction, and orange for confidence). Disrobe and anoint the parts of your body you would like to change with rose oil. If you are going for an all over make-over, anoint your forehead, your breast bone, the center of your belly, each wrist and behind each knee. Pass the mirror through the smoke of the incense, then raise it over your head, reflective surface facing the moon. Visualize the moonlight flowing through the mirror and enhancing your beauty. See yourself transform into how you want to look. Say:
Wood and Wind, Ember and Mist
Grant your blessed child's wish
Sacred Mother charge this mirror
Let your light make beauty clearer
Wrap it in your gentle glow
So that tis all it ever shows.
On an altar or table, make a ring of pink and white rose petals and set up a pink candle in the center. Before you light it, think of your best traits and concentrate on those for a few minutes. Light the candle. Repeat the following:
May my inner light shine
With love and power Divine
Meditate on being confident and amazing! Think of the traits you feel insecure about and feel pride swelling inside you for those traits. Blow out the candle when you’re done and go out into the world with your new found confidence!
Keep a Group Together
Light a candle for focus and to represent pure intention and light of your God/ess. Focus on the flame and see in your mind’s eye your intention to remain together as one family in one home. See it as if it has already happened along with any goals that need accomplished or obstacles needed to be overcome to get there. Pour some of the sea salt into the container. Place the pictures in the jar with the herbs and crystals if you chose to use them. Pour another layer of salt over that or fill the rest of the container. Hold container in your hands. See a white light surround you coming from within.
Now see this light join with a brighter light coming down from the heavens (God/ess light) and build energy. While visualizing your goal again see the energy pouring into the container from your hands. When you’re done place the container somewhere in your home. Redo the visualizations, candle, and energy building parts every month on the full moon as needed or desired.
This is a collection of spells from various sources in print, online, written by us or friends, etc. All have been tried by at least one person in our group and received positive results is why they were chosen for this page.